However, the self-definition part is never over. It is a never-ending process in which new parts of our personality are being constantly rediscovered. We can be sure of who we are at a certain point of time. But we can never be sure of who we will be in the future.
Personally, I never thought I would be who I am today. So many aspects of my life have changed over the past few months that is border-line unsettling.